There’s a standard knee-jerk that most people go through in their 40’s. They overreact to some excessive caring in their 20’s and 30’s by developing self-righteous intolerance for a decade or two.
The only reason they come out of this, if they do, is that their peers are all doing the same thing, and the friction gets so intense that that they actually have to self-examine again.
Don’t get carried away in celebration of giving of zero fucks.